I have now lived in the little stone cottage set in the heart of the secret valley for twenty-six years, far longer than any other house during my lifetime. Its isolation became my refuge when, with my then new partner’s support, I rebuilt my life after a period of huge emotional difficulty. It was here where I made new friends, found new interests, developed my horticultural career and surrounded myself with animals. Soon the two of us will be moving house and leaving the valley forever. More of this later, today it seems appropriate to take a wander around the valley and re-visit some of those happy memories.


The cottage as regular readers of this blog will know is set in small, deep and well-hidden valley. It is surrounded by fields and by the river which wraps itself around two sides of the house. It is a river of extremes, in places deep and slow, in others clear and fast running. At times its banks are quite straight, whereas along other stretches it is full of bends and meanders, as shown in my blog header. At present, especially because of the prolonged drought, the water levels are low, no doubt before long it will have filled and spilled over to flood the fields and lane. Our house sits high enough never to be threatened by flood, in fact, I rather like it like that for it brings the water birds so much closer.


When I first came here, the farm of which the cottage is part, concentrated on sheep, my favourite of all farm animals. They were a happy link to past times spent on Exmoor working on a friend’s farm – it was Exmoor where I learnt to lamb, to shear and to embrace remote living. Now, the sheep have gone and beef cattle have taken their place. It is equally lovely to see them grazing just feet away from the windows and their curiosity and friendship are endearing. Calving takes place twice a year – how glad I am that I never learnt how to help with that!



Living where we do it was very easy to collect animals, and horses, chickens, guinea fowl and quail, cats, as well as several dogs, all became part of the daily routine. I had always ridden horses since my teens but I had never been a confident rider. That all changed when my partner who is a superb rider and has won numerous competitions, arranged for me to have my own horse and lessons from one of the best teachers in the area. Jo was a strict taskmaster and before long I was able to charge about feeling quite secure on Barney, a gentle giant of horse, an Irish Draught. He was followed by several others including Tux, a retired racehorse straight off the track. He and I would have constant disagreements about what speed we intended to travel but, I’m glad to say, no bones were broken in the process of learning how to control him. The dogs deserve a blog post of their own which no doubt they will get before too long.


The little horse to my right is Tux, the very mischievous retired racehorse
Photo credit: Jane Stilwell
Because it is so quiet here in the valley, wildlife abounds with fox, badger, deer and the occasional otter, as well as some wonderful birdlife. As dusk draws in it is not uncommon to see a fox amble across the meadow and I have learnt where to quietly sit if I want to see them with their cubs. When I was much younger I would also lie on the ground in near total darkness waiting for the badgers to venture out of their setts; these days I am more than happy to just have a fleeting glimpse of a badger without all that discomfort. It is only with the greatest luck that you’ll come across an otter which has happened to me twice. They are wonderful creatures, how privileged I was for a family of them to sit by the river bank and allow me to photograph them. Hare are so common here, that I almost forget just how lucky I am to see them nearly every day.


There is so much to mention about the valley – the wild flowers, the dry stone walls or the houses, for example – that my writing of it will not cease with the move. Likewise, I don’t have any plans to change the header of the winding river even though it will be an hour away. And of course I shall still be living on the very edge of the Cotswolds with lots of new places and adventures to share. And then there’s the history, the new place has a fascinating story of its own and the hills there have a very different character to those here in the valley. All the new will have to wait for it is still a month or two before we finally arrive. So, where is this new life going to be taking place? All will be revealed in due course. In the meantime, here is a little teaser: this wonderful fountain which wouldn’t look out of place in Rome is just a four-minute walk from our door. I hope you will all continue to join me as I continue my Life in the English Cotswolds.

could it be Cheltenham? I look forward to your next blog, John although I have a tinge of sadness about you leavjng the valley behind. It is exciting though to begin a new chapter.
Lovely to hear from you Norma and hope you are keeping well. We leave here next month and staying in a friend’s house for a few weeks so don’t finally move in until October. A tinge of sadness, yes, but we have been planning this for many years so excited to see it finally happening and, hopefully, while we still have good health to explore and settle in. Cheltenham? Quite by chance, I have discovered that a hundred years ago some of my ancestors did great and good in the town so it may be a hard act to follow!!
I have so enjoyed your life in the valley. All the best for the shift. That’s a lot of animals to take with you! I was once a Glastonbury girl myself, but now a very long-time Aussie. Warmest wishes, Kate
Many thanks for taking time to comment, Kate. I’m glad that you have been enjoying my ramblings and hope you’ll continue to do so. The animals have all gone: we stopped riding four years ago (age + getting more painful when falling off!. Our lovely lurcher, Twist, the last of our dogs died a few months ago and we always said that when she died we would leave here. There is sadness at leaving, of course, but we’re very excited about the change too with all the challenges that a new way of life in a new place brings. Of course, I don’t need to tell you that, moving from Somerset to Australia!
I recognise that fountain. Your new place was my home for a few years in my mid-thirties while I attended college there.
Colin.
It is an amazing fountain, isn’t it, as is all the Georgian architecture. I always think of it as the city of Bath without the crowds. Even though I’ve never lived in such a built-up area before, I’m looking forward to it enormously.
Lovely to read John. We know only too well the wrench of leaving a paradise on earth after 35 years. 4 dwellings in 9 years, with horrendous challenges made us question our sanity in moving. But the last of the 4 is our new and hopefully last home and we love it. Lots of work to do but we love it all, the village, surroundings and neighbours. We feel blessed. All our best wishes for your move. Just take your time….🌺🥀🌹🌿🌲🌳
Thanks, Sally. I’m glad that you’re finally settled and we plan this to be our final move. Things are happening apace but we don’t anticipate finally moving in until the end of next month or early October. Updates will follow!!
I so enjoyed reading this!
Thanks, Fran. I’m looking forward to exploring the new area and writing about that in due course. After 17 years of blogging I don’t want Life in the English Cotswolds to end just because of a house move 🙂